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Been living with it for the past 12 years... I used to skip school almost everyday, just bc i didn't wanna talk to anyone. I would spend all day at the river, just watching the current. I've been on several different medications, and ive talked to at least 8 therapists. Nothing works. I've never had a real job, i haven't had a girlfriend since 16yrs old, I don't even have a driver's license. Society just wasn't built for people with SA and mental illnesses. I'm getting real tired of existing.

This disorder is horrible. I developed it after dealing with years of failure due to a learning disability and people getting angry and frustrated with me because I’m doing things wrong, am not learning fast enough, or forgot how to do something. I felt and still feel like I can’t do anything right. I was never bullied to my face, but I used to overhear people talking about me behind my back, saying stuff like “she’s weird” “she’s so awkward” “she’s so ugly and stupid.” My anxiety started getting really bad in high school where I couldn’t do presentations in front of the class but it’s gotten worse in the past 3-4 years and I am now 22. Whenever I go to family gatherings I barely say 2 words to anyone and just keep checking the time until it’s time to leave because I’m anxious. I even cross the street if I am taking a walk and see someone walking in my direction. I only have one friend and I can’t bring myself to make plans with her because of my anxiety, and every time she makes plans with me, I turn them down. To anyone else, suffering from this problem just know you’re not alone. ❤

I will tell all of you why I have social anxiety when I was 9 I had a neighbor next door who was mean and he was a pedo in 2013 with his son who harrassed people my age and I remember those 2 would always watch me and walk near me I told them I'm calling the police at 9 years old! I was a smart kid who was alone all of time and I think that pedo is in the hospital for being a bad guy and his son left with his wife and now I left to school in 2014,2015,2016 I was picked on by kids in my class,teased,bullied everyday they also accused me of having lice when I had dandruff I had 0 friends then covid hit I was the loneliest person you would ever see.

I'm scared of humans because I have been treated differently for being European from a white country my parents are immigrants and I have been born in the USA and no one has ever treated me like a human and I am a human I have teeth I have 2 eyes I have a nose to breathe I have legs I have arms why am I treated differently? All of my school years I was treated like shit by other people and I never felt like I fit in at United states of America it is annoying I wish I can be treated like a human for once.

I remember crying and dissociating as a young kid when a teacher would call on me, id just sit there quietly till they called on someone else.

Actually saved this video bc I thought the dude in the thumbnail was Ian Mackaye Watched it bc I care

I had social anxiety bc was was highly criticized by my parents

I feek like If my parents listened to me ,this would be much easier for me ,I can't even get a job ,I have a younger sister , she's 12 years old going to high school next year and iwant tobe part of her life too cause she's the only person who seem to understand me ,she comforts me ,she can see when I had a rough day and that breaks me to know that I can't do anything for her knowing that i have to clim walls for every step I take

I remember in high school I picked up art of expression classes and it was a nightmare. We used to create a big project in groups of 5 people and for the whole year we prepared a scenario for a play in the end of the year. It was about 3 hours of classes per week and the only thing we did is basically talking in groups and sharing ideas with each other. I litteraly just sat there and couldn't speak because of that social anxiety , the only thing I wanted is to go home but u have no where to go , u can only endure this. U see others just laughing and having the time of their lifes while you sit there and have a litteral war of thoughts and emotions in your mind. It felt like literal chains or snake that got around so tight that u can move a muscle. Fuck high school , the worst times of my life. 😢

Social anxiety will end over if we stop assuming people..

I wish I just had the anxiety itself. But my anxiety causes me to blush. Which causes anxiety. Which causes blushing... and people see it. They point it out. And for someone with social anxiety where you are afraid of being judged. This is the worst possible combo. I have been cursed for some reason...

I'm grateful for this. I've started documentating what's happening to me bc it's gotten so bad. I'm so desperate for help.

im sorry for being that kid but the 1st guy looks like pewdiepie

When he said (2024) very effective treatment diazepam will disable/remove anxiety slash fear i recommend it for all looking for jesus here 😊

Im 34 and have social anxiety. 🥲

I have severe social anxiety and depression. It's about 18 months that I'm in therapy and I use medicines for my depression and anxiety. Overall I feel better than before. I mean, at least I'm not completely isolated and I go out sometimes. In the last year, I tried so many things that I haven't tried before since I was a little kid; Like going to a Café, Shopping, etc. I'm still really socially anxious, I still hate myself for who I am but at least I'm trying and I'm aware of my negative thoughts and feelings. I know that they're not real. The thing that I want to say to people who have severe social anxiety, the people who actually never go out and are really anxious and afraid of social situations (like me in the past) is that, Don't let your fears stop you from experiencing new things. The world outside is not that scary and painful as you think so. Your negative thoughts, I know they're painful, but they're not who you really are. When you force yourself to go to social situations, you will experience new things, after a while, you will not just understand but you will FEEL that the world outside and the people are not as scary as you thought before. You deserve being loved by yourself, you deserve to experience and make sweet memories, you deserve to have friends, you are more important than you think so. I hope we all can overcome this disorder. :)

This is totally me since I was 5 and years old I have suffer all my life and I am 55 years old now and I don’t leave my house anymore ! Mine is chronic 😢

It’s the worst thing to live with. Honestly.

I may have a mild form of this condition.

@Silentstu thank you for the upload. I try try to get better everyday but it is Soooo Hard. Thanks stu! And God bless you!!

sometimes the self judgement is horrible. Friendly people get such reinforcement and praise from society. If you arent outgoing and charming and chatty, people think something is wrong with you. You are a bad person, aloof, selfish. Why didnt you come to my party? Why havent you gone for that promotion? Why arent you dating?

I cried while watching the girl with selective mutism. She looked so much like me when I was young. I wish the treatment worked well for her. I recently found out about SAD and selective mutism. It is relieving, and I want to overcome this so badly. Thank you for making this video!

I had social anxiety till I was about 23. I am 28 now. If you are struggling IT IS POSSIBLE to beat it. Trust me. You have to be comfortable being uncomfortable. People don’t understand how hard this is. But YOU can beat it

It causes one to be lonely

It started when I was a kid and people did things to hurt me, plus BEING judged for being poor, not fitting in with the bullies in the ghetto I lived in. Both adults and kids reinforced that fear. The fear of them noticing I'm in fear because they love a target that doesn't fight back or want anything to do with fist fighting as a young girl. Other things happened throughout my life that reinforced my fear. It's not unrealistic to fear another incident with another one of those kinds of people. I want nothing to do with them. Fuk them for how they destroyed so many people inside and reinforcing of this fear of another attack.

I loved people and had a job in front of the public. It wasnt until my stalking i became afraid or wary of people.

No body is perfect, but every one is important because they are a child of God. Every body has a talent in different areas. Encourage people to have confidence because they are just as important.

Social Anxiety Disorder=SAD ☹️

This is mental torture for me everyday.

Thank you I just found this video by chance . And 😢 this documentary is talking about me . It s helpful to understand this disorder.

Trust your instincts.Most ppl are sh#

Social anxiety makes you feel like an imposter everywhere you go and like you are stupid too nobody cares people that don’t suffer (that I’ve met ) truly gets it !! it’s an exhausting internally every second of my existence is draining only until I’m alone …then even texts give me anxiety not opening them gives me anxiety all I have the energy to do is get to work and distract myself look normal then go back home and feel GUILTY for not being enough to people I care about! It’s a lose lose situation 😢

Social anxiety is not a "mental" disorder!!! Anyone familiar with the Myers-Briggs personality test? I'm an INFJ myself

I have social anxiety disorder 😒

Does anyone have the remedy?

Social anxiety ruined my whole life. I'm 35 years old and i live in a cage - have no friends. No partner, and i lose my job, and i feel afraid to face anyone in my life. i hate this terrible feeling, but i can't help 😞

You think this is bad. Try having a tic disorder and learning issues in school.

i´m cried when i saw that little girl was to shy to show her picture. i feel her so much! i had such an anxiety when I was little and i felt always wrong. My familiy didnt recognised that i struggled so much. And no one talked to me about feelings at home. Last year i got diagnosed with Sozial Anxiety. I hope that poeple get more sensible to anxiety and can see it easier. <3

I don't fear people. I am outgoing. Lately, I am just careful about being overly comfortable and saying the wrong thing.

Because of this I don't have girlfriend...

Any guys from the UK here?

11:55 touched me i am crying writing this message to you and i feel u r are same like me …… i need help 😢

This has been my whole life I got used to it I battle it every time I grew up now I’m 34 I can cope with it more but on my teenage was horrible

Me staying at home for months, had a family party yesterday but i was in my room locked up, and YT recommending me this.

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I'm really starting to notice alot of ppl have this, famous ppl too , I can think of 3 names off top of head

Social anxiety is NOT "being afraid of people". It's not even fear. It's more like feeling like you're trapped in a glass box or like you're tied up. You can't be who you want to be or do and say the things you want to, because you just can't. Because every time you leave your comfort zone, you're back in the box, and you can't move. It's uncomfortable to the point where it can almost feel physically painful, but there's just nothing you can really do about it. That's anxiety. It's not being shy or being afraid of people. It's being trapped in your own head.

Suicide isn't the answer, PRAY to Jesus for your situation, HE understands you, every inch of ourselves is His commune toward us, if HE can heal the physical sick, HE can heal the mentally ill people to help them have a wonderful life ❤️, the devil is out there trying to bring people down, read Jesus's word every day ❤️ and pray to Him every day, I know there's a lot of pain but we have to keep going no matter what 😁 😐 😀 😉 ❤️ 💙 😁 😐

I like keeping to myself most of the time I don't like being forced into a friendship If I make friends I like to make friends own my ,I am forced to live with a house mate who is mentally challenged and meantlly unstable, I have both ADHD and Autism so sometimes it's sometimes its hard for me to make friends, I often have Melt downs or panic attacks .

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